The secret of success is to change mental programming and attitude about our present life. If we only perceive our reality and define our actions from reactions to that reality, the success is very far away. So, how do we start changing our attitude to achieve success?

Every appearance can be seen from two points of view: from a positive, and from a negative perspective. We all know people who always look at things negatively, saying that “the odds seem stacked against them”, that they are “jinxed”, and who always wonder why can’t at least something nice happen to them. They also wonder why they are “so stupid or clumsy”. When we think this way, we get stuck in negative emotions and, accordingly, we attract negative things and events.

We all know that there are also people who seem to see only the positive side of anything happening to them. They somehow always manage to overcome negative emotions by looking at the positive side of things only, saying things like “who knows why it’s good”, “what is it that I can learn from this situation” or “what should I do to make sure that things work better for me next time”. The power of such positive thinking is so strong that it influences attraction of future events. Many will say that the idea of changing your life by seeing things so simply, and by adopting a habit of saying some sentences, is utterly stupid. However, it is true. One positive thought attracts another positive thought, and the following one, building up the concentration of positive thoughts until it becomes so dense that it can generate enough vibrations to attract a real event.

Whenever you find yourself thinking something that is contrary to the way you want things to be, stop and say to yourself: “ok, I know what is it that I don’t want, but what is it that I do want?” The very redirection of your thoughts from the problem to the solution of the problem changes your attitude towards it, and makes your emotions change so that now they emit different vibrations. And that is how we will attract what we want into our lives. The process of changing the context of the sentences that you use in the way that you enhance positive perspective, is called “pivoting” It is one of many creative techniques you can use to consciously and intentionally set the course of your life.

People tend to look at things the way they are, not the way they can be. It is quite understandable, though. When you have financial problems, it’s hard to see the success, wealth and prosperity you strive for. Likewise, when seriously ill, one tends to think about progression of the illness and even death more than of healing and the good outcome. Even the Law of Attraction tends to help you too, when you change the “story”. You have to change your mental programming with the skills to start thinking positive!